Is your life a beg given by your Wife?

In our traditional culture, a girl's life completely change after marriage. I can't say too much about other religious culture because I have not enough information about them but yeah, I can say very clear this, for Hindu culture because after marriage there are some such things are added in her daily life which are must, wait wait wait..., not in her daily life but on her body, like ManglaSutra, Bindi, Sindoor... etc.

I can't say about you, but i can feel how much it is difficult to follow this same routine for her, after taking bath you must to do 'SHRINGAR', you can't remove CHOODIYAAN, you can't forgot SHINDOOR, you can't remove BICHIYA otherwise "will be terrible sin :)". Have you ever think why these all things are must, if YES, that's a nice thing but if your answer is NO, I explain.

Recently, something happened which was forcing me to find the answer of "why it is must from a long time?” I started with my family but I could not find the answer and it was weird because they were doing this from a long time without a perfect reason, they were just doing, doing, and just doing only because this world is also doing the same things and they were teaching this to their new generation too. There was something who was telling me 'something is wrong going on' because it is like we follows someone's rules without knowing that who is/are behind of them, why these have been made and why we should to follow them. The other way, I had GOOGLE was to find answer to all of these. So, I made a small list of those things which is necessary to wear for a married female:

● SINDOOR (also called SINDOORAM is a traditional vermillion red or orange-red colored cosmetic power, usually worn by married women along the part of their hair).

● BINDI (a colored dot worn on the center of the forehead, commonly by Hindu and Jain women)

● MANGALSUTRA (a necklace that the groom ties around the bride's neck in India and sub-India countries, which identifies her as a married women)

● CHOODIYAN (Bangles are considered inauspicious to be bare armed for a married woman)

● WEDDING RING (first examples were found in ancient Egypt, indicate that its wearer is married, also wear by men but must for women)

● BICHIYA (Toe Rings would put on the toes and never removed. The rings would show that the woman is married, in some other cultures men also wear)

And I started searching one by one and the result was found, I just kept looking at it with a smile, the reason of my smile will be found after knowing the all beliefs behind them, so let's first start with SINDOOR or SINDOORAM:

SINDOOR: Hindus believe that Goddess PARVATI protects all those men whose wives apply vermilion to their parting of hair.

BINDI: Bindi is worn by married women as commitment to long-life and well-being of their husbands.

MANGALSUTRA: According to Hindu traditional the MangalSutra is worn for the long-life of the husbands.

CHOODIYAN (Bangles): Are symbolizes the well-being of her husband and sons.

RING: By wearing the ring on the fourth finger of the left hand, a married couple symbolically declares their external LOVE for each other’s.

TOE RINGS: Toe rings have been indicated to be worn to regulate the menstrual cycle.

So, I was smiling because after seeing this my mind raised a question, "Is their life a beg given by theirs wives?" because most of the things have been made for husband's long-life, you can see 'KARVACHOTH' (a festival) in which a married woman cannot eat & drink until the moon goes out and after that she worships her husband and breaks her fast. I can't say about you whether you can see or not but I can see very clear, there are something happening wrong in a large scale from a long time. Which was designed for selfishness and it was shown, as if it were all for their benefit. It seems as though what we are seeing today is only what they wanted to show us and the reality is hidden somewhere in history. I am not saying these all things on the based on only this article, I have some theories which forces to see the history with suspicion bit I will not discuss those theories in this article because there is a lot of work left on them.